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Back in the naughties, when the idea was novel, speed dating events attracted large diverse crowds.
Up for a laugh, people embraced the novelty, and tried it.
I was curious to see if these men were really serious about meeting an intelligent woman for a serious relationship.
For the first event I told the men that I was a stewardess and was away most of the time and therefore not looking for anything serious.
People who wouldn’t normally approach the opposite sex in the real world. But the problem with speed dating, is that often the women who are attracted to speed dating events are VERY different to the men.And organising something that doesn’t feel like an interview – an activity where you engage with others more naturally. If not, then don’t go – go to something he or she finds fun instead.Ice-breakers are useful, but you want to be sideways on and doing something which you can chat about, not forced to sit face to face in clinical booths, literally judging each other on a slip of paper. If you have a certain ‘type’, then look at your friends, and find the friend who most resembles that type of person. Yes, speed dating can work – but only if you’re the type of person who NEEDS a bell and a tick sheet to talk to a stranger for 4 minutes (but won’t get intimidated by the situation).The Tantra Institute’s co-founder Daka Guy told me that the event came out a need for people to meet outside of technology.“People are not connecting in person as much today as they were before smartphones,” Guy said.